the habit of trusting people
de bill K7WXW
Almost every piece of radio gear I own, outside of hand tools, a DVM and the task light over my bench, is used. I love a good bargain as much as the next ham but that’s not my primary reason for buying other people’s stuff.
I recently purchased a magnetic loop antenna from a ham in Oklahoma, whom I will call Sam. He’s decided to focus on portable operations that don’t involve lugging stuff up and down mountains; the loop is “excess to his needs”. I love being outdoors, have been putting together a backpack-sized kit for portable operating, and enjoy mucking about with antennas. We are a match made in heaven.
We exchanged emails. Sam offered a fair deal and I didn’t haggle with him. Before I dropped the postal money order into the mailbox, I sent an email to confirm his address. He replied, confirming his address and letting me know he had already shipped the antenna. I mailed the money order.
Wait… he’d already shipped the antenna?
Sam and I have not met. We’ve not had a QSO, live approximately 1900 miles apart, and only know each only through our postings to an email list to which we both belong. We are, by conventional measures, strangers. Yet he sent me an antenna without having cash in hand and I did the same thing going the other way. Are we crazy?
Perhaps. I do prefer Paypal to money orders and I checked his QRZ page to be sure that an enterprising con artist wasn’t using an unsuspecting ham’s name and call sign for a scam. That was the extent my diligence, a fact which an younger version of me finds quite remarkable. But our email exchange was so straightforward that the QRZ bio page check just confirmed my gut call: this is a honest guy, I don’t need to to anything else.
Truth is, most of my ham gear buying and selling goes this way. Sure, I’ve encountered a few cranks, grouches and one or two outright thieves but mostly I deal with people like Sam, honorable folks that follow the golden rule. And the pleasure of encountering them, even if it is only through email, is one of the benefits that the exam study guide didn’t cover.
And each one still surprises me coming, as I do, from a world which valued besting the other guy above just about everything else. I am fortunate: as a ham, people like Sam happen along often enough to suggest a different kind of world is possible. I am grateful for the reminder.
Thanks Sam. I hope I have a chance to work you on 40 meters sometime.